As a marginalized person who has both been physically assaulted for my identity as well as been subjected to hate & discrimination, let me be clear that equivocation between words and violence is not helpful.
I didn't mean for it to sound like an equivocation, and reading it back I see how it could be seen that way. I should have worded it better.
What I'm trying to say is that we should all be aware that our actions occur in a context, and thinking about the possible implications of those actions is a good thing. This is true whether that action is a physical action, or speech, or even inaction etc. The attitude of the OP appeared to be more "I am free to do x and I'm not going to give any thought to what the possible consequences might be before I do x", which isn't particularly fun for everyone else.
"Whatever I see fit" typically is a declaration of defiance and rejection, rather than a simple "I'll try my best". If that characterization is accurate, it implies that your theoretical apology would be insincere. If so, why offer it?
Maybe stop waving your fists about?