[diN0bot]

i think you'll find more success with Facebook-like thinks if you Think about it less, by which i mean don't strategize or mull over it. try acting from your instincts on what feels right in your core. you'll find yourself taking more honest actions and appreciating how you spend your time, rather than consuming your mind with judgements on yourself and others. "wasting time" sounds to me like a product of taking actions without consulting your gut, like you're chained to your mind instead of your whole being. the fact that wasting time is so much in your vocabulary is like a secon meta level of focusing too much on your mind and strategizing instead of doing.

i haven't yet figured out the right words, but there's something important i'm trying to communicate. feedback welcome.

[bas]

Actually, this is perfect advice for daily living with others. In other words, stop playing chess with relationships and get out of your own way.