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> very frugal and minimalist lifestyle (no fancy car, no expensive holidays, no eating at restaurants etc)

That's not "very frugal and minimalistic lifestyle", that's just living for 95%+ of the world population. It's not so bad.

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I didn't say it was bad. But women who work tend to do all of this and want to maintain that lifestyle which is clearly ridiculous to do on a single income with children.