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by cmroanirgo
2460 days ago
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A friend of mine regularly self-moderates his communications, particularly emails. If there's an "I" (or other personal pronoun) in a sentence, he deletes the whole sentence. Often his replies are just "Thanks" style... But you know with him it's a very considered reply despite the terseness. I'd suggest that such copious tweets (& follow up comments here) may very well harm future prospects... As you sow you reap. You need to learn to let things go: particularly in tech. It's great that you like your (former) fellow employees: make friends with them and network with them. Alternatively, if you wish to make political actions, then undoubtedly you need to be more impersonal: just like the people who were tasked with outing you. |
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The fact that I shared my story like I did and doing now was beneficial on all levels for me. I stayed true to my principles and values. I was approach by companies and managers who have the same values also. It helped me go back on my feet emotionally and professionally way more quickly.
My personal take is that whatever you do, no matter if it's about deciding to not care or not say anything, or being vocal, stay true to yourself, and be proud of what you share.