[Aloha]

I'm an overweight gay male probably on the autism spectrum with learning disabilities, I don't really like effectively being lectured on my privilege.

You'll never change the conversation if you don't engage with it - its perfectly fine to step away from time to time, but unplugging and living in your own reality serves no one.

[beat]

I'm not trying to lecture you or tell you what to do. I'm saying this is why some people do what they do.

If you're saying that people who feel a need to block threatening voices shouldn't do so, who's lecturing, exactly?