[whatshisface]

I think there are plenty of people who are trying to get their loved ones to quit smoking.

[balfirevic]

But do they think of them as assholes because they are smoking? Or eating unhealthy food?

[whatshisface]

If you eat so badly that you die at 40, then yes that's just as bad as slipping off a rock. Look at it this way, let's say a guy gets married and then starts eating so many big macs every day that he's headed to the grave in a few years. My guess would be that his wife would hate him for that even more than if he was a solo climber.