The particular anecdote GP is referring to is here though:
https://m.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=211040872252...
HN discussion:
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=16518726
I've heard a lot of good about this book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000FBFNL0
The particular anecdote GP is referring to is here though:
https://m.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=211040872252...
HN discussion:
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=16518726