[arcware]

Not sure if this was meant for me or not, but I hope I didn't come off as complaining in that post. I just wanted to make sure people thought about the personal side of things before diving into it. People tend to overlook the spouse's point of view, and I wanted to make sure I pointed that out.

[nhangen]

I don't think it came off like that at all. I think you sounded realistic and pragmatic.

My spouse does add extra pressure, though not on purpose...it's just there. However, I'm permanently unemployable, so what else can I do? :)