Osmos

http://www.hemispheregames.com/osmos/

Its not exactly "online" (although I hear it started out that way) but it definitely breaks tension. The reviews aren't exaggerating, its like chill-out in a can.

Battlefield Heroes & Team Fortress 2

I read hacker news to break the tension and build motivation :)

league of legends

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