[h2odragon]

Your friends and family don't want to offend you. You need people who dont care if they make you feel bad.

First step is being more forward about it; understood you don't want to be self promoting here just asking for help on the meta-problem of how to promote: still appropriate to have your one or two sentences of "This is why we're better than sex and everyone who doesn't use us shouldn't bother procreating." with a link to show what you're talking about.