[brankoB]

I don't think that quote makes much sense. I can want a specific thing someone has (e.g. praise for work done) without wanting /everything/ they have.

[colordrops]

I think his point is that typically the context of all the particular aspects of that person's life feed into the reason why they have that one thing you want.

[elindbe2]

Not necessarily. The fact that I brush my teeth in a certain way doesn't determine the kind of car I drive or whether I love my wife.