[hjacobs]

I can recommend joining the CNCF End User community [1] as it allows exchanging experiences around common problems, e.g. developer experience in a mid/large org, regulatory requirements (there are some banks in the CNCF End User community), etc.

For list of current members, see https://www.cncf.io/people/end-user-community/ (I'm working for Zalando and are co-chair of the CNCF End User Developer Experience SIG).

The CNCF End User community is a vendor-free zone, so you can also discuss and learn about experiences with certain vendors to have better insights before deciding on one ;-)

[1] https://github.com/cncf/enduser-public