[sho]

> I'm sad all the Ruby guides I've seen ban "and" and "or"

Well, as you no doubt know it's about the precedence - "and" and "or" are much lower, which can lead to confusing behaviour since conceptually they overlap so much with && and ||. I confess I had to go and refresh my memory of their exact behaviour, and I've been using ruby for a decade. I guess I agree with the "ban" since reading code can be confusing enough without having to think about which flavour of "and" you're using, but I guess I can see the use case.

Your (first) SQL example is exactly the style I would write, by the way! It's funny how conventions seem to arise by some emergent crowd phenomenon. I remember several years ago I realised that hey, I don't even need to capitalise the keywords - but the result looked so "wrong" after years of reading them capitalised that I still do it anyway.