[criddell]

> But if I was given the choice to go back, I wouldn't. I wouldn't even consider it.

There's a speech in the movie Parenthood [1] that expresses a lot of what you just said. With a kid (or kids), the highs are higher, the lows lower. Some want to be on a roller coaster, others are happier on a merry-go-round.

[1]: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z18vJwmxFFY

[camelNotation]

The highs are higher, lows are lower idea seems right. And a lot of the value comes from that. Life in more real, more genuine when you aren't as insulated from pain and joy.