[matz1]

Why bad? Both can works in some situation for some people.

[SketchySeaBeast]

Because if it works, great, but if it fails, you're now in a failing marriage and you've brought kids into that misery. Children are not something with which to gamble to try and make your own life better.

[matz1]

So just like everything else then. Whatever solution you have, there will always be risk of horrible failure.

[SketchySeaBeast]

Many others don't involve dragging human lives into the mix as part of the gamble.

[matz1]

Sometime the solution is to involve other human lives.