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by vinbreau
2583 days ago
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I've lost three friends over the years to psychotic episodes or schizophrenic breakdowns so I've seen several examples of what happens to people and it all comes down to financial means. The friend born to a wealthy family had a safety net to fall back on. Same for the friend born to a very religious family. As for the friend from a poor family, it was horrible to watch what everyone involved had to go through. He was a happily married man in his mid 20's. Decided to go off his meds and not tell anyone. It didn't help that he had never told us about his mental illness, but that was his choice. He snapped, left his wife and vanished for a while. When he was brought home his parents could not keep him in their house as he was prone to threaten violence. He even threatened me once during this period. Since they had no insurance they could not house him at a facility. The only thing they could do was pay for him to live in a motel, one within their abilities which meant the cheapest motel they could find, one known for drug users. My friend had previously had a problem with drugs, had to go to court mandated Narcotics Anonymous, even had a mentor to help him. Despite having cleaned up for over 10 years, here he was in a motel full of drug dealers and users while in the midst of a psychotic breakdown. The last time I ever saw him he was having a fit in a field near a mall. I stopped to help him, he was in a fugue state thinking he was in World War 3. he smelled of urine and his clothes were a mess. I drove him to a local YMCA because I had no idea what else to do. They told me there was nothing they could do, but agreed to take him in for the day and see if they could clean him up. Knowing he was prone to violent behavior I figured that wouldn't work out. I never saw him again. A friend of five years just evaporated. But what I saw is that if you are poor and have a mental breakdown, and your family has no means to help you, you are screwed and have no choice but to live on the street. |
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