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by gnaritas 2597 days ago
> my wife and I

One of you stay home and raise your kids; that's rather the point of getting married.

> With the upcoming summer, if we still lived in SF, we'd have four children in daycare. $6,400/mo.

If paying other people to raise your kids is even on the table, you're doing it wrong.