[setquk]

We changed the locks originally because we caught him in the place doing an inspection unannounced. All our clothes had been gone through and the computer turned on. Funny sounding inspection.

The marmite was deserved. If you’re going to make someone’s life miserable and insecure for six months then we’re going to roll out the red carpet on pettiness.

[sjwright]

Nothing is gained by being an asshole to an asshole. All you've done is provided him with documentable proof for how terrible and vindictive he thinks you are. It doesn't matter if every other claim he's made about you was a lie.

[setquk]

Sometimes it is not about personal gain but making sure that any unfair gains are worthless.

[sjwright]

How does smearing marmite make the unfair gain worthless? It might make you feel smug for a few hours, but if your enemy is vindictive, it could be used against you.

The best move is to avoid playing the game.

[setquk]

I just asked my other half how she was feeling about it after 16 years and she laughed so clearly petty justice has a lasting effect.

I think the person in question would be in vastly larger amounts of trouble for even raising his head above the cesspool he floated in for a moment. It would be like a chase from the Benny Hill show with local housing enforcement, HMRC, the police and a trail of angry and abused tenants.

The best move is making the game worthless so there are no winners. Shit on the board. It's a stalemate then.

[vraivroo]

That is not just "an asshole". That is criminal.

[ubercow13]

It probably felt good though!

[sjwright]

If you prioritise the short term over the long term, then yes.

[ubercow13]

I think the sibling comment demonstrates that it is was long term benefit.

[sjwright]

Only a long term benefit in hindsight. Could have gone any number of ways.

[setquk]

Unlikely. There was some intelligence behind it. He was aware the locks had been changed as I explained his in an SMS so I did what he asked explicitly. Secondly I could apologise for the mistake of leaving the wrong keys inside the property. As for the marmite, some kid did a prank! Ooops. Based on the police's previous attitude, would they likely come out for a bit of marmite in a letterbox.

The put the keys through the letterbox thing was actually a masterpiece of idiocy on his part which I refrained from mentioning to him.

[JadeNB]

> Only a long term benefit in hindsight. Could have gone any number of ways.

Isn't every long-term benefit long-term only in hindsight?

[stale2002]

Well it seemed like there were zero long term consequences. So it worked out.

[Twirrim]

Yeah, but it's a complete waste of Marmite. It ought to be illegal to waste such a heavenly thing as marmite like that.

[setquk]

We'll agree to disagree on that. After 22 years of putting up with marmite in the house I still don't like it ;)

[Twirrim]

I'm a Brit who has been living in the US for over a decade now. Every now and then I try to introduce American friends and co-workers to the delights of Marmite, but to no avail. Luckily for me, it's relatively easy and affordable to purchase Marmite via Amazon.

[maxkwallace]

To anyone reading this: if this happens to you, please talk to a lawyer. Please do something to protect future tenants, get the landlord's info online. Don't seek retribution just for yourself.

[setquk]

(if you want to burn all your money on a lawyer that is)

It's honestly best to cut your losses and walk away.

[ascagnel_]

> We changed the locks originally because we caught him in the place doing an inspection unannounced. All our clothes had been gone through and the computer turned on. Funny sounding inspection.

That may be a criminal act in your jurisdiction. My local laws allow the landlord access, but the landlord needs to provide 48h notice of the inspection (with a list of specific exceptions for emergency work, mostly around plumbing and electrical work) and cannot bar the tenant from being present during the inspection.

[TomMarius]

Entirely legal in EU, btw

[ginko]

That's not true. In Austria at least, a landlord certainly can't enter a rented-out apartment unannounced.

[TomMarius]

I replied to a wrong comment and didn't notice. What I meant is that changing locks is entirely legal in EU.

[ubercow13]

That's..terrifying.

[jadyoyster]

I've never heard of an EU country where it would be legal to enter without ample warning time.

[m_t]

And also completely false!

[TomMarius]

Yes, I replied to wrong comment, sorry. I meant that changing locks is entirely legal.