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The main source of stability for RHEL isn't that any one arbitrary version of a package they ship is better than another one, or that their patches on top don't suck. It's that they ship a long-term "stable" (as in "doesn't change much", not "sucks less") set of software for production use.

Thus, if you install some random vendor's shitty software you can rest assured that the version of libcurl and 50 other libraries they depend on is something they themselves have tested on RHEL.

The same goes for hardware that you buy. When you buy e.g. Dell rack-mounted servers you can safely assume that the open source driver version maintained by the vendor shipped as part of the RHEL kernel is something that's seen extensive production use, unlike the latest upstream kernel, or whatever "in-between" Debian et al are shipping.

Am I recommending you use RHEL? No, it's not the right answer for everything, and I certainly have my share of RHEL scars, including a couple of times where a mundane bug in my program turned out to be a kernel bug (one in RHEL's own shitty patches, another "known" bug with their ancient kernel).

But this is the reason to use it, and why some major commercial vendors say "we support Linux, as any distro you want as long as it's on this list of RHEL versions". They just want to deal with those kernel/library versions, not any arbitrary combination out there in the wild.