[rfrey]

There is never anything wrong in a word. Only in the intent.

I have no horse in this race at all. But to suggest (as the above quote suggests to me - I hope I'm misreading!) that words have no power, or choice of words doesn't matter, is naive in the extreme.

[ErrantX]

Oh yes, words have power. But they are not inherently right or wrong.

It is how they are used that makes them.