[laughinghan]

Is it your understanding that non-Western cultures would be more or less okay with graffiti? Seems like everyone else is if anything less absolutist about private property rights.

I'm sorry you think that what I did to your stuff trashed it, but I think I enhanced it/everyone else thinks I enhanced/I didn't think you cared? It's on your outside wall, everyone else in the world has to stare at it/pass by it too, whereas from inside you can't even see it.

Sure, strictly speaking, legally no one has any right to do anything to it but you. But like, if you're asking why societally, culturally, it's socially acceptable to do stuff to that wall, I don't understand why that's hard to understand? No harm no foul; like, if I set fire to your building, no one thinks that's harmless or acceptable. But if I paint something on your ugly outside wall, why would anyone be up in arms about that on your behalf?

[tokyodude]

then maybe you should grafitti the Sistine Chapel. You claim you're making it prettier but why is that up to you? If want to paint it make a proposal and ask for permission.

Besides beauty is in the eye of the beholder. 95% of the graffiti I see is just someone's name/callsign/initials. It's not remotely pretty. It's just blatent selfish self promotion

[laughinghan]

> then maybe you should grafitti the Sistine Chapel. You claim you're making it prettier but why is that up to you?

Of course it's not up to me? You asked how it could be "ok with so much of Western culture". If we collectively think it's prettier, like those Banksy pieces that were going to be removed but were instead made permanent due to public outcry, then we're okay with it. If we collectively think it's dumb/ugly/meaningless, like tagging (which is what it's called when people just write their name or initials or gang sign or sports team is apparently really common, too), then no one minds if we remove it, and there's certainly not much respect for it. If someone destroyed priceless cultural heritage like the Sistine Chapel by spray-painting over it, do you really believe that would be "ok with much of Western culture"?

[RickS]

I did a good bit of graffiti when I was younger. 10 years later, I'm still in the creative industry and I still love graffiti. But I'm mostly very ashamed, now that I'm old enough to have property of my own and skin in the game. Just a preface in case your gut response is that I'm an old prude and don't "get it". I definitely get it.

I'll mimic the parent you're responding to: street art is great. By "street art" I mean things that err more towards murals than tagging, and that are ideally consensual/legal, but if not are at least harm-reducing (side of an abandoned warehouse is not on the same moral plane as the side of a church or dwelling unit).

1) If I took the bumpers off a car because I thought it looked slicker that way, would the owner care that I felt I enhanced it? I would guess not.

2) Pollsters would have a very hard time finding any cohort of people that are pro-graffiti enough to be described as "everyone else". You can test this on some random passersby. "I did this to a guy's house without him asking. I made it better, right?". What type of responses do you imagine?

3) That people get upset by graffiti on their property is common knowledge. I don't believe that you don't think anyone cares. Nobody thinks that. You might think they shouldn't care, which is closer to the excuses I subsisted on when I was doing that kind of thing, but it's a very different argument.

4) There are very few forms of graffiti that are "no-harm-no-foul". A building that is scheduled for demolition and is out of view of passersby, utility tunnels/infrastructure that are out of view, do not have markings that would be obscured, and where paint doesn't impact their functionality are the only ones that come to mind. And the second one's out if some guy has to come down there and clean it because the city makes him.

I like my outside wall blank. That's why it's blank. If I wanted it a different way, I'd make it so. But nevermind that graffers are violating the autonomy over my own space that I work hard to preserve. Even if I don't oppose what's on the wall there is a cost being incurred. For me to change what's on that wall costs money. If you're wrong, and everyone doesn't love graffiti, then my property is now less desirable. It's harder for me to sell my home. My economic mobility is decreased. Maybe that 2k in property value makes a real difference to my family. The city might get mad at me and fine me, which costs me money, unless I have the wall cleaned or painted, which costs me money. Graffers are having fun, selfishly, and sticking future-me with the bill. To break the law to violate my property and cost me money, and claim they did me a favor? Nah.

5) Why would people be up in arms on my behalf? Empathy! I know I don't like getting punched in the face, so I know how it feels when I see that happen to my neighbor. I don't want to see him harmed any more than I want that harm for myself, and because he and I are part of a community, his pain is my pain. Neighbors are there for each other.

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But don't take my word for it....

If you really think everybody likes your work, ask the people whose building it is how they feel about it.

[laughinghan]

I'm confused. This reads like you're trying to convince me not to do graffiti. I've never done graffiti in my life. Maybe one time I scribbled over a particularly misogynistic bathroom stall tag, or I wanted to but didn't have a Sharpie with me, I don't even remember.

Lots of graffiti sucks? I'm not advocating vandalizing the Sistine Chapel like your sibling suggested? I'm just trying to explain to grandparent why street art would be "ok with so much of Western culture", because society is just not that absolutist about private property, because things tend to be socially acceptable roughly in proportion to how harmful/harmless they are.

I didn't know the city fines property owners for not cleaning up graffiti on their property, which they obviously didn't want in the first place, that sucks. Of course I empathize. That's not the kind of graffiti I would describe as "ok with so much of Western culture" though?

[RickS]

> I've never done graffiti in my life

I think maybe you adopted the voice of someone else in your post, then, and it didn't read in an obvious way.

> I'm sorry you think that what I did to your stuff trashed it, but I think I enhanced it/everyone else thinks I enhanced/I didn't think you cared?

> No harm no foul; like, if I set fire to your building, no one thinks that's harmless or acceptable. But if I paint something on your ugly outside wall, why would anyone be up in arms about that on your behalf?

The "I"s in there make it sound like you're very on board with destroying property, so yeah, I was definitely trying to make a case against that mindset.

I don't think it's a mindset a lot of people have. They draw subjective and somewhat arbitrary lines between "art" and "vandalism", and when legality is indeterminable, that line probably has a lot to do with "whether I think it's pretty or not".

I guess I'm not sure what kind of graffiti you're advocating for. Public murals? Those are pretty cool. But the parent you were replying to also called those out as being great, so it seemed like you were making the case for more illegal, less well-meaning forms.

It sounds like either we're misaligned on exactly what kind of thing you're talking about, or maybe we all agree that a certain very pretty, fairly legal minority is relatively harmless.. If your first comment's words aren't your actual views, I don't feel the need to talk it to death.

[laughinghan]

I'm really not advocating for anything. I was trying to explain exactly what you said: "[A lot of people] draw subjective and somewhat arbitrary lines between "art" and "vandalism", and when legality is indeterminable, that line probably has a lot to do with "whether I think it's pretty or not"."

The comment I was replying to said they didn't "get" that, so I was trying to help them imagine what someone might subjectively, arbitrarily think of tokyodude's absolutist stance. I thought it was pretty obvious I've never personally vandalized any of tokyodude's property (the "I"s were equally as rhetorical as the "you"s).

I think the way you expressed it was much clearer, though.