[savingthrow]

You grab a child by the arm and drag it -- that's potentially violence, but we'd need to look at the action as a whole.

You hold a child's hand to guide it -- that's probably not violence.

HN needs a name for the falacy that people always seek to define precise exact rules for everything, ignoring the way that courts work by investigating the context of an action.

[thetrumanshow]

Seeking precise rules for something is, in spirit, the exact opposite of what a logical fallacy is.