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Recently started using dating apps and also read the book 'Dataclysm', so this is a timely article. I can confirm it's all true - men are treated like second class citizens on these apps because that's just the way it is. Very average or even ugly looking women will get hundreds of messages, some of them from very attractive men, no matter what they do, so they don't do much of anything. A man with no bio, only one so-so picture, and who doesn't respond in a timely manner has literally zero chance but I see girls act that way all the time. Very commonly you see girls with bios that are nothing but a list of requirements - "6 foot, works out, nice, is funny, no hookups, follow me on Instagram if you want to talk."

I don't think there's anything we can or should do to change but it is a raw deal for guys. Also note that apps like Tinder seem very artificial and surreal (e.g. like they don't actually matter) and I do believe this skews behavior.