[alashley]

> Complained about your dating prospects instead of making yourself more dateable?

Being dateable and actually finding people to date are two very different things.

[wvenable]

Part of being dateable is putting yourself in situations where there might be people to date.

[MRD85]

Unless you live in a small town there are people who are datable, the issue is being attractive enough to them that they want to date you.

[mav3rick]

The former is almost always helpful . Rather than lamenting about the latter.

[alashley]

Makes sense.

[cheesymuffin]

This is so true for me. I'm an ant.

[rzzzt]

Sounds like an "If a tree falls in the forest" philosophical problem.