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by JesseObrien 2672 days ago
I didn't go out of my way, I clicked his profile here, which has a link to his website, which has all of his social media on it.

I made an honest attempt to understand someone before engaging with them, next time I'll just spew some uninformed BS if that's better?
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erulabs 2672 days ago
I didn't see your post before it was deleted, but i'm genuinely curious. I live in SF, and I'm doing well, but I was not born into this world. A good chunk of my friend group has died of heroin overdoses, and the rest fled to Texas to work on oil fields because there was no other escape from painkiller addiction.

I _hate_ having to bring up my sadness credentials in this area. Everyone is always trying to prove how hard they work and how broken they are. Try going to Modesto. Try talking to an Uber driver. We're not "all broken", its just most of us have never had to struggle, ever. The appeal to culture destitution is just silly - no, not everyone here talks only about startups and blockchain. Yes, we all want to go back to our home towns with some savings. No, there is no humanitarian crisis in the bay area tech scene.

I assume you came after me for being white male from California? Remember, my point is that our lives _are NOT_ so difficult... I should not have to justify my perspective with my own personal tragic history, and that's _exactly_ what my problem with this article is.

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DanBC 2672 days ago
> I didn't see your post before it was deleted

It wasn't deleted. There's a setting in your profile called "showdead" which will allow you to see all the flag-killed comments.

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erulabs 2672 days ago
Ah, thank you. Didn't expect to be attacked for being a programmer on Hacker News. Nor did I expect that being a programmer somehow means I can't understand stress or hard work. How crazily insulting and how dim that persons view of others must be.

Never meant to imply no one should complain. Life is hard for everyone. But a 6 figure job out of college after getting rejected from Harvard _is not tragedy_, and I don't really care who says otherwise.

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sctb 2672 days ago
No, you made personal attacks. This is not appropriate on Hacker News so please don't do it.
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