As someone who used to develop with some of those options, I'm frankly glad that I can use HTML/CSS and Electron + React. It's much easier on the developer, even if it's less performant for the end user.
It's not like I don't get the pain of slow tooling. I cut my teeth on C++. However, it's not a laziness issue, it's trading performance in one place for functionality in another. Case in point, at the time I chose C++ because I was trying to do game development in the pre-unity days. These days I'd choose Unity in a heartbeat because it's fast enough and saves me a lot of busywork. I could write more performant code from scratch, but it's really not worth the extra months spent wrangling polygons because the game never gets made.