[all_blue_chucks]

You're right that it's not simple. In fact, studying security-senstivie ways in which software tends to fail and how those failures can be mitigated is an entire field unto itself. Software developers can't be expected to get it right on their own. That's why all major software companies have security engineers on staff.

Open source projects, unfortunately, rarely have such contributors. Probably because building stuff is more fun than threat modeling (which can be quite tedious to do properly).