I find empathy hard here. If the author had said they froze or panicked and blanked on BFS, then that's understandable. But that's not what happened here.
"If only the author did these very precise things that they just so happened not to do, THEN I would find empathy".
I'm pretty sure that's not how empathy works.
"If only the author did these very precise things that they just so happened not to do, THEN I would find empathy". I'm pretty sure that's not how empathy works.