[seeker61]

In other words, she doesn't respect the deal she made with you.

[throwawayIn2019]

I honestly think she just doesn't know how. I don't think she is trying to be dis-respectful. She just needs that close personal contact and interaction through out much of each day.

Our goals in life are very different. The way we work is very different.

[seeker61]

I suggest that you re-read the things you've written about her with the following question in mind: "Am I making excuses for her behavior?"