[notacoward]

Did you just not read the part where I said there were problems associated with "traditional femininity" too, before you jumped in to make the same point as though it was original?

<narrator>It wasn't.</narrator>

FYI, hyper implies excess. "Risk seeking" implies seeking risk for its own sake, i.e. when it's not situationally appropriate. That's not "completely different" wording at all. The only bullshit here is your attempt to exaggerate conflict, which BTW is another part of that toxic behavior cluster we were talking about.