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by lkrubner
2727 days ago
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"how these lies can hurt you" True story, I had a major illness in my late 20s. And apparently I have a high tolerance for pain, so the nurses and doctors repeatedly underestimated how much pain I was in. I can be in incredible pain and still hold it together and answer questions in a calm and rational manner. This made one doctor suspicious that I was faking the whole thing. So then I tried to adjust my behavior. I started deliberately giving more outward signs of the pain I was in. And then the another doctor accused me of exaggerating or being a hypochondriac. I was not able to find a level of external performance that kept all of my doctors happy. If I was too restrained, then they had trouble believing I was really feeling the pain that I described with my words. But if I tried to act the pain I felt, then I was accused of being a hypochondriac. I should add that most of my doctors were great. In my whole life, I've only had 2 negative experiences with a doctor, the two that I just mentioned. |
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I know you said "apparently", but how can you know this for a fact?
How can anyone's pain tolerance be objectively measured? I've always wondered about this...