[awaywopassd]

Wow.. this is my wife right now. I feel like I cannot say anything around her because she will take it wrong way. We just watch TV and don't really talk. We may talk about paying bill or picking up groceries but nothing serious or something I really want to talk about.

I am not sure what my next steps should be.

[GlenTheMachine]

Whether or not she will get help, you should. I would offer to go to couples' therapy. If she takes you up on that, terrific. But if she is not willing to go, you should find some emotional support for yourself.

My brother, who is a minister, has a saying that helps: "If I didn't break it, it's not up to me to fix it." Your first job is to see to your own emotional health. You can't make another person's decisions for them.