[1ba9115454]

In a way these are not life changing events. Whether I travel coach or by private jet is largely irrelevant to me.

A bigger impact on your life would be any of the following.

- Your health and exercide.

- The strength of your relationships.

- Having 1 or 2 close friends.

- Being grateful for what you already have.

- Enjoying your work.

- Having a dog.

- Learning new things.

- Giving back.

[Arn_Thor]

I've got a few of these things going for me, but I'm still terrified of the future. And I know it doesn't make logical sense. I'm young, and just this year made six figures for the first time, saving plenty of that for the future. But I'm haunted constantly by the worry that something might happen and I lose my ability to work and earn so I'm unable to save up for and provide for a family I might have in a few years. I'd give anything to have that concern taken away

[unforeseen9991]

That's normal, as the default mindset is the scarcity mindset, part of the survival instincts. I've had this for as long as I can remember, although for me it definitely starts to fade with age.

[solarkraft]

You're able to worry about those things when you don't have to worry about money anymore. Some people are not in that position.

[tapland]

Yes. What you need for happiness is very different from what you need to be able to collect sportscars as a hobby.

[throwaway5250]

+1 for "exercide"