[Zelphyr]

Really? Wow. I didn't realize that. Are there good sources for this kind of information you can refer me to?

[balls187]

"Nearly half of all women and men in the United States have experienced psychological aggression by an intimate partner in their lifetime (48.4% and 48.8%, respectively)."

More numbers here:

https://www.thehotline.org/resources/statistics/

[tomp]

Abusers are about equally men and women. A surprisingly large percentage of those partners are mutually abusive (I forgot if it's more like 25% or more like 50% but both are high IMO). Men hurt women more because men are, duh, stronger.

[balls187]

In an abusive relationship, there is always a dominant abuser.