This seems to be the equivalent of saying "I don't want to use the internet because it's too slow" in 2001. There are numerous organizations working on ways to reduce crypto processing fees, one of the most advanced in certainly Plasma: https://plasma.io/
Not sure that's a reasonable analogy. The Internet in 2001 let you do things that you would like to do but couldn't, easily, before. It was a bit crap at them but it was delivering value incrementally.
Bitcoin did that initially, to some extent, by being the currency of a part of the underworld.
Unfortunately, what then happened was that crypto was massively oversold. It would be great for distributed currency. Not really. As a store of value. Too volatile. As a payment processor. Too expensive.
Now, we're getting the next stage which is that it'll be fine when we add this special sauce. And maybe it will be, I hope so. But TBH, I'd say that the onus is on having at least one system come close to meeting at least one of the sales pitches. Even if it's a bit crap.