| "Is better to give than to get". Aside your job, consider an activity that requiere help others. Most people like when you help them, even in small ways. Also, other activities that help to be "solo", but in the good way. Like walking in a forest. Play music or paint. Exercise. Anything that allow to be in your own thinking, but in the path to a positive objetive and not remembering how much you sucks. (also, this can become groupal easily, and still let you to stay alone sometimes!) You absolutely not need to be good at any of that. People sign in the shower, and suck at it! So learn and do anything that you enjoy. Not work after a while? At 19 you still have the luxury to change tracks fast. However, also PAY attention to why, how you do things, what work or not, and what effects and possible source of that are. --- In relation to programming, in the case your wanna continue: You hit a problem, google it, fix the problem? Congratulations, you are above average! |