[jplayer01]

It's possible to be a jerk and enlightening at the same time. As easy as it is to forget in today's culture of "everybody's a victim" and "feelings over every other concern", a good argument doesn't suddenly become invalid just because the author is rude.

[tabtab]

I'd be interested in specific examples to learn from. I'm always striving to make myself a more useful and enlightened jerk. I've already upgraded from a__hole.