[devwastaken]

It's not about enforced equality, it's that there is no proof of your generalizations, and trying to be an authority on it is at best reaching for straws. We hardly know epigenetics and physical psychology. What we do know is that people tend to fills roles they're treated as, or are looked down on when not, so we try to diminish those effects by giving the opportunity of equality, however that individual may want to go about it.

If you meant it as a joke I don't actually mind that much, y'all are married, but it's when you're serious about it that people are going to call it out.