[sololipsist]

And what if she's using the relationship to get ahead? What, are we going to pretend that women are powerless, agentless puppets that smart, capable men can use?

If the company you're in doesn't prohibit relationships, if you get into one you need to resolve conflict in those relationships outside of work.

[JoeAltmaier]

Again, ignoring the likelihood she had no choice, or perceived it as the only way to go forward.