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by drb91 2806 days ago
What, they refuse to answer? How rude.
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They’ll play along, but be aware that not only have you forgotten their name, you also believe you can fool them into thinking you didn’t
Yeah it's double patronizing. It's worse than just coming clean and shifting the burden to yourself by acknowledging your poor memory skills.
The goals wasn't to relearn their name, but to relearn it while not showing that you forget it. The latter part is what fails...
As rude as lying to save face?
The lie would be for the benefit of the person whose name was forgotten, not to "save face". From what, forgetting a name? Nothing is more human.

I do agree that to lie at all is a terrible idea.

Now I'm curious. If lying in general is a terrible idea, how does the person whose name was forgotten benefit, otherwise what makes the terrible lie worth it?
White lies are confusing things.