Isn’t spam the main problem nowadays? I find a hosted mail unusable without some spamfilter in front that is either costly or comes with your corporate accounts.
I don't think so. I was using a selfhosted email for years and never had any problems with spam. You just need to configure your email services to use some DNS block lists like those: zen.spamhaus.org bl.spamcop.net and so on.
Also, setup DMARC and SPF entries for your domain. https://dmarc.org/
I have been using self hosted email for two years, spam, I have received < 5 spam emails targeted to my personal email address. Last spammy email was in February. Those mails were impersonating a read friend of mine and real people we both knew or they knew were in CC.
I did receive:
- several spam emails by week until May on another domain I host (at info@<domain> and contact@<domain>, easy to filter out)
- one spam last month at info@<mypersonaldomain>, also easy to filter out.
All of these spammy emails came from OVH IPs.
It's interesting to see that I haven't received any spam to personalized email addresses I give to stuff that need an email for registration so far.
edit: actually, I just received a spammy email at info@<domain>. So weird. Not from OVH this time.