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Erlang can be a good fit -- the concurrency primatives allow for execution on multiple cores, and the in memory database (ets) scales pretty well. Large (approaching 1TB per node) mnesia databases require a good bit of operational know how, and willingness to patch things, so try to work up to it. Mnesia is erlang's optionally persistent, optionally distribution database layer that's included in the OTP distribution. It's got features for consensus if you want that, but I've almost always run it in 'dirty' mode, and used other layers to arrange so all the application level writes for a key are sent to a single process which then writes to mnesia -- this establishes an ordering on the updates and (mostly) eliminates the need for consensus.