Just as a point of reference here - I'm not taking sides in this debate, I vividly remember reading about the 1999 Toronto 87 car pile up.
Fog on a straight road caused an 87 car pile up after a trailer jackknifed. The point in the article I remember at the time was a mother recounting watching her 14-year old daughter burn to death. Mom got out, but the daughter had been pinned by her leg.
The quote from the time was ""Mama Sheila, please don't let me die. I'm only 14," Marceya McLamore begged."
I suppose my point is that neither human or machine are good enough yet. and not to treat this as an abstract academic topic, it's real people.