[adamc]

Some chronic depression before, maybe. But mostly, she said she wanted to find herself, and she couldn't do that with others around -- too hard to "hear herself think".

Which is to say, I don't really know and never will.

[brown-dragon]

I guess there are somethings you just have to let go off. I'm sorry man - I know it must have been hard. I hope it's getting better everyday.