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by antibes 2862 days ago
thank you

I am doubtful of the study methods but not my field I will have to read again, I am commenting because I endure complete days stuck in miasma recollection of decades past thst was obliterated from my memory until further trauma unlocked it. I believe there's something to the headline conclusion, from my own experience. When i am not knocked to bits by the assailing memories, I find increasingly i can modify my way of thinking and experiencing daily existence (life is a abstract i think i glimpse like a mitafe, occasionally) and i have not only found this a profound new agility, but become increasingly adept at appreciating the people i meet who also have experienced varying degrees of trauma, whom I fibd I can get myself on a wavelength with almost now with minimal or no consciouss effort. Although inevitably some people will unburden the most excruciatingly self serving nastiness, I have found that people are open to me who i wouldn't before have been able to get a conversation with wherein the they are personally able to communicate insights and i can hold in pattern and positively nidge and steer back to where they​digressed due to the upsets subject of their talk, with no notable friction which existed distinctly.. this change, the latest of years of considerable cognitive adjustments i have been through, happened since a breakdown just two weeks ago. For my anecdotal life, therefore, I am willing to give this some credence.