[mamaniscalco]

When my older daughter (8) was upset because my younger daughter (3) destroyed her art work I taught her that, while her younger sister would not go without consequences for her actions, it was ultimately her own fault for leaving her artwork in a place where her younger sister could get access to it - especially when similar lessons had been experienced before.

So, in the end, you have to decide if your priority is your sanity, your integrity, loyalty, or something else. Then you should act in that best interest. Once you do this you will be at ease with the outcome no matter what it might be.

edit: You have as much right to your 'OCD' as he does to his 'lack of work ethic'.

[dikaio]

I honestly hadn't looked at it like that... I think it's more of that fact that it is him that I want to be working with and that's why it continues. Appreciate the advice @mamanisalco!