[mehrdadn]

I assure you I'm not naively just dumping code on random developers and telling them to merge it. I do talk to them first, that's exactly how I figure out they think their code is fine and my changes are unwelcome whenever that's the case. (Edit: Well, mostly. It's also happened that my changes were rejected after I made the patch, but that was nevertheless after discussions had already taken place. Like when I said they later decide the patch is too big.) And regarding the upstream project issue: in the case I had in mind, the upstream project had its own reasons for not doing things the way I mentioned. The changes really did belong in the downstream project, but the downstream guy just didn't care to have to maintain the changes. Although, I also have to point out that upstream projects tend to present even more obstacles for merging code -- not only when the entire reason there's a downstream fork is that upstream is not going to support the entire platform/architecture/whatever, but also when they're big projects with their own hoops I don't care to jump through on my end as I explained earlier.