[gaoshan]

Just FYI for anyone reading this. I make slightly less than half what the OP does but I have tons of time to spend with my family, can run off and do what I want whenever I want (almost). As long as the work gets done I can schedule my time as I see fit. I also take, about once a year, month long vacations in other countries and work from there. I make quite a bit less but live in a lower cost of living area and have good "quality of life". In my personal case I find this to be a nice balance.