[init-as]

Where would a person even begin to learn how to do something like this? I’m a programmer but wouldn’t even know where to start on a project like this.

[secure]

There are a bunch of tutorials out there on how to build your own router based on Linux or one of the BSDs. I’d recommend such a tutorial as a good starting point for a top-down view.

The lower-level is very visible through Wireshark, with which you can capture all network traffic.

Does that help?

[accatyyc]

Most universities with computer science have courses in networking, which usually includes programming a router. I’m sure some courses are available online

[ejanus]

Also search for tap & tun based tutorials. Make sure to be ready to read tons of RFCs in the area of neighbor discovery, path finding in graph , and parsing