| You seem to be making a common mistake about Buddhist detachment. It may be helpful to refer to a simplified version of Buddhism's 4 Noble Truths: 1. Suffering exists. 2. Suffering arises from attachment to desires. 3. Suffering ceases when attachment to desire ceases. 4. Freedom from suffering is possible by practicing the Eightfold Path. A few points: - Buddhist detachment isn't detachment from everything — it's detachment from desires, which becomes possible when you recognize that suffering underlies all desirable things. - The point of detachment, and of buddhism at its core, is to reduce suffering. As opposed to passive nihilism, which is "epitomized by resignation" (at least according to google, I had to look it up https://antimodernist.wordpress.com/2012/09/06/active-vs-pas...) - The next step after detachment is a set of practices to reduce suffering. Some of the most powerful are the compassion (metta) meditations, i.e. "May I be free from suffering, may those near to me be free from suffering, may all beings be free from suffering". Working to reduce the suffering of all beings is the opposite of resignation. As my own buddhist teacher (Dan Brown, www.pointingoutway.org) explained it to me, many beginning buddhists get stuck on the detachment part, which leads to nihilism, which leads to resignation, which leads to more suffering. In contrast, "properly executed" buddhist detachment leads to practices that reduce suffering (the Eightfold Path). Hope that helps. |